On a lively Wednesday night at the iconic Helsinki eatery Ilves, the atmosphere buzzes with energy and anticipation. It’s a gathering space where strangers step through the doors for a multitude of reasons—some in search of companionship, others simply eager to escape an evening spent alone.
Tatska girls—a term that translates to “tattoo girls”—refers to the dynamic duo of tattoo artists, Salla Ollakka and Lee Su Ling. What started as a creative project has blossomed into a movement, one that organizes social gatherings in bars, festivals, and museums throughout Finland. Their goal is straightforward yet profound: to create inclusive, vibrant spaces where everyone feels welcomed, regardless of their identity or who they love.
From “slow-friending” sessions to lively pub quizzes, bingo nights, and interactive group games, each event aims to dissolve barriers and encourage genuine connections. Designed to be accessible to both Finnish speakers and English speakers, these gatherings attract a diverse crowd of locals, international students, and recent transplants to the country.
Returning to real life
Candlelit tables glow softly as roses bloom nearby, accompanied by question cards awaiting their turn.
In a world increasingly dominated by screens, authentic connection has become a rare commodity. This may explain the popularity of Tatskatytöt; they provide an experience you can’t merely scroll past. While the challenge of meeting face-to-face can feel daunting, sometimes all it takes is a specific time and place—and a touch of sisu, that unique Finnish blend of courage and resilience.
As the clock strikes six, the organizers begin to register participants. Within minutes, both speed-dating rounds reach capacity. The venue fills up with not only hopeful romantics but also friends and curious bystanders.
Hiski Ruusulampi arrives early, well aware of how swiftly energy can permeate the room after attending five previous events. For him, this isn’t just about finding love; it’s about seeking authentic interactions, a rarity in today’s fast-paced world.
Hiski Ruusulampi shares his appreciation for meaningful, in-person conversations at Tatskatytöt events.
The ambiance is welcoming and playful, heightened by themed icebreakers and the gentle encouragement from the hosts, making even the shyest attendees feel at ease.
Who shows up and why
Heta Rantakokko, a veteran of over ten Tatskatytöt events, advises others to take a leap outside their comfort zones.
Tatskatytöt is committed to genuine inclusivity. “We aim to be warm and approachable,” says Ollakka. “We proudly support all rainbow communities and strive to create events for everyone.” The diversity is evident in the crowd, ranging from young adults to individuals in their 60s.
As for dating apps? Many find them exhausting. “Swiping through matches that never lead to real-life dates is disheartening,” Rantakokko admits. However, at Tatskatytöt events, she finds something refreshing; they facilitate conversations with people she’d otherwise never meet. Like Ruusulampi, she’s after not just romantic connections, but simply a fun night out and the chance to expand her social circle.
The bar environment fosters interaction, but these events are also wonderfully suited for venues like Helsinki’s Kiasma Museum of Contemporary Art.
Initially, the organizers harbored doubts about whether their concept would resonate in Finland, so they focused on making each event as inviting as possible.
After each round, participants jot down the numbers of people they’d like to connect with again. If there’s mutual interest, Tatskatytöt takes care of the introductions later, eliminating the awkwardness of rejection while cultivating an atmosphere of positivity.
Tatskatytöt aims to inspire bravery in the face of loneliness.
As the evening draws to a close, many guests are already inquiring about future events. Those who arrived alone leave with newfound friends, while others feel reassured knowing there’s a welcoming community waiting for them upon their return.
By Céilidhe Becker, May 2026
Photos by Emilia Kangasluoma
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